Pre-Planning Pet Aftercare Services
Why thinking ahead—even when it feels morbid—can be a gift to yourself.
My cat was diagnosed with kidney disease at 14. The vet said she might have six months, might have two years. I spent an afternoon researching cremation options while she napped in the sun. It felt strange, almost disloyal. But when she passed eight months later, I knew exactly what to do. That research was one of the kindest things I did for myself.
Why would I plan this in advance?
Because grief makes everything harder. When you're crying in the vet's office, you don't want to be comparing prices or Googling 'private vs communal cremation.' You want to already know what you want.
Planning ahead means:
When is the right time to plan?
There's no perfect time, but consider it:
You don't have to do anything with the information immediately. Just having it written down somewhere helps.
What should I figure out ahead of time?
**Cremation vs burial:** Do you want ashes returned? Would you rather bury your pet at home or in a cemetery?
**Private vs communal cremation:** If cremation, do you want to pay extra to guarantee your pet's ashes specifically?
**Aquamation availability:** If this interests you, check whether it's offered in your area.
**Provider selection:** Identify 1-2 reputable providers. Read reviews. Maybe even visit.
**Cost:** Know the approximate cost so you can budget or save.
**Keepsakes:** Do you want a paw print, fur clipping, or memorial jewelry? These need to be arranged before cremation.
What if it feels too morbid?
I get it. It feels like you're jinxing something, or being cold about a beloved pet who's still alive.
But here's another way to look at it: you're being a responsible pet parent. Just like you planned for their food, vet care, and daily needs—you're planning for their final needs too. It's an act of love, not pessimism.
Can I pre-pay for services?
Some cremation providers offer pre-payment plans. This locks in current prices and removes the financial burden from the moment of loss. Ask your chosen provider if they offer this.