How Other Pets Grieve

After my older cat died, my younger cat wandered the house crying for days. She checked his favorite spots, sniffed his bed, and seemed lost. Animals grieve too—just differently than we do.

Do pets really grieve?

Research suggests yes. Studies show that surviving pets often display behavioral changes after a companion dies:

Not all pets show obvious grief, and that is normal too. Bonds vary.

Signs your pet may be grieving

**In dogs:**

**In cats:**

**In other pets:**

Birds, rabbits, horses, and other social animals can also show signs of grief.

Should I let them see the body?

This is personal and debated. Some people believe letting surviving pets see and sniff the deceased helps them understand. There is no scientific proof this helps, but many people report it seems to provide closure.

If you choose to do this:

How to help a grieving pet

**Maintain routines:** Predictability is comforting. Keep feeding times, walks, and play schedules consistent.

**Give extra attention:** More time, gentle affection, and calm presence.

**Do not punish changes:** If they have accidents or behavioral changes, respond with patience.

**Keep their environment stable:** Avoid major changes to furniture, their bed, or household routines.

**Watch their health:** Grief can suppress immune systems. Monitor eating, drinking, and bathroom habits.

When to worry

Contact a vet if:

Grief is normal; illness is not. When in doubt, check.

Getting a new pet

Do not rush to "replace" a companion for your grieving pet. Some pets do better with a new friend; others do not. Wait until the initial grief has passed and watch your surviving pet for cues.

Your next steps