Creating a Pet Memorial Garden

After my dog passed, I could not bear to look at his empty bed. But I could look at the garden. Creating a small memorial space gave me somewhere to go when the grief hit.

Why a memorial garden helps

A garden gives grief somewhere to go. Instead of sitting with empty hands and a heavy heart, you can dig in the dirt, watch something grow, and create a peaceful place to sit and remember.

Choosing a location

Consider visibility—do you want to see it from inside? Consider meaning—was there a spot your pet loved? A sunny patch where they napped?

Simple memorial garden ideas

The container garden

Perfect for renters or limited space. Choose a beautiful pot, plant flowers or herbs, add a small marker with their name.

The dedicated bed

Clear a small area (3x3 feet is plenty), add a border, plant perennials, include a focal point like a stone or statue.

The tree memorial

Choose a tree suited to your climate, plant in a meaningful spot, add a plaque at the base.

Plants that work well

**Sunny spots:** Lavender, roses, black-eyed Susans

**Shady spots:** Hostas, ferns, impatiens

**Symbolic choices:** Forget-me-nots, rosemary (for remembrance)

Adding meaningful elements

Incorporating ashes

Mix ashes with soil when planting (ashes are alkaline—do not use pure). Scatter in the garden or bury in a biodegradable urn.

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